Yeah, what about moms?
Sure, the word “dad” has been used frequently here when in reality it is synonymous with “parent.” I’ve not intentionally excluded moms since they have a high-level stake in this, too.
The educated guess is each parent communicates in their own way and style. Perhaps a take-charge type will prepare something on behalf of mom and dad. (But I’ve been wrong so many times before, and that’s why you should never put any faith my weather forecasts or my picks for stocks or pro sports.) If nothing else, it’s table fare for dinnertime conversations. How couples accomplish this is something of a mystery to me since I’m a single dad.
But there’s no overt intent to denegrade the stay-in-touch capabilities of moms. A further educated guess is they are somewhat more attuned to make contact. It might be their instinctive nature. The point being, however, that parental title is really of no matter. It’s all about the doing.
Seeing how it’s nearly Halloween, we’ll reach into the bag of tricks for an older letter to the Dynamic Duo.
Oct. 16, 2006
EB/Reid: Charlotte was not ready for Uncle Ralph. Once again, he has proven beyond doubt that there is no one on the face of the earth that he cannot talk to and cannot talk to at length. From our Saturday lunch where he struck up a conversation with our waitress to a dinner at a co-workers house last night, he dominated the verbiage from start to finish. But that’s what makes him. When he gets nervous or excited, he talks. Nothing deters him from talking. That’s just the way it is. It was so funny to have him around here because he just won’t settle down. We saw the town, watched a couple of games Saturday night at a sports bar – he called Aunt Gayle every 30 minutes for updates on the Nebraska-Kansas State game because it wasn’t on TV – moved furniture around and did errands, worked out twice, and went out for breakfast. Your cousins, Andy and Joe, are doing pretty well. As you could guess, Ralph is all excited about the grandchild. And he misses you guys and asked exhaustively how you’re doing.
The house is slowly coming to order. Slowly. No furniture has been delivered yet, as the trees they planted to make the furniture have yet to mature and be harvested, kiln dried then cut and sawn into furniture. That’s how slow that is. And the satellite TV won’t be installed until today. It just killed Ralph to not have TV to watch sports on. Just killed him. I’ve got stuff, clothing, strewn everywhere with no place to go until the dressers arrive. Can’t wait for those. Actually, the bedroom furniture is in town at the warehouse, so hopefully – knock on wood – it will be here this week. The guestroom and office are pretty much done except for artwork. They have a swell Habitat for Humanity store that sells donated furniture, and I snapped up a bunch of really fine lamps, a couple of end tables and 4 different, eclectic chairs for the dining room table. Now, it’s on to rugs. It’s really nice to cook with gas. Makes you feel like a chef. EB, I have some silverware your grandparents sent, along with those cream colored plates we used to store next to the stove, if you want to take those back with you. Or, I can ship it to you if you need stuff in a hurry.
Reid, sorry to have cut off your call this morning. The cell service here is just lousy. Really want to hear how things are going. You’re almost halfway through with your stint there. Can you believe it? But it all sounds good.
Will take the bike to the Blue Ridge Mountains this Saturday. It’s about two hours away, and I guess the leaves are just starting to turn. If the weather holds it should be a beautiful ride. Really glad to have the bike out, but when it rumbles through my town home development, it’s almost like riding through a canyon of walls, so it must disturb the neighbors. It’s not like I’m revving it up. The weather here has been lovely of late, cool and crisp but not overly cold like you’d find in Des Moines. The days have been just wonderful.
Extended the olive branch to the C____________’s in that Jeff is more than welcome to come down here to explore job possibilities. No, wait, didn’t I already tell you guys that? Never mind.
EB, it will be great to have you and the Timster down here. There are lots of cuisine and culture possibilities. I may take off the Thursday you arrive so we can tour the town and area in style. No doubt will take you to a couple of music spots I’ve frequented, the Double Door (blues) and Evening Muse (varied artists). Both are a lot of fun. And, you will make a cameo appearance in the office to say hello to the group. Well, got to rumble. Catch you two on the flip flop, as they say in the trucking biz.